One of the most thought-provoking talks I attended at this year’s WebExpo Conference was by Lutz Schmitt, titled “Digital Intimacy: Feeling Human in an Artificial World.” It made me reflect on how we approach emotional connection in digital design, something that often gets overlooked when we’re focused on functionality or aesthetics.
The Main Message: Making Technology Feel More Human
Lutz Schmitt’s talk focused on an important point: even though digital tools are getting better at copying how people behave, they don’t always create real emotional connections. He warned that we often design for speed, accuracy, and logic, but real human feelings are often slow, messy, and complicated. Just because a chatbot answers quickly doesn’t mean it feels caring. Just because a dating app matches people doesn’t mean it builds real connections. This really made me think. It reminded me that designing how things work isn’t enough. We need to ask: Does this feel human? Schmitt suggested a new way to think about emotional design. Instead of adding emotions as a last step, it should be part of the main design process. He gave examples like adding pauses in conversations, using less perfect language, or choosing a warm tone to make people feel like they are talking to a real person, not a machine. The goal isn’t to copy humans exactly but to understand what makes people feel seen and cared for, and design for that feeling. Emotional design needs attention and care, just like any other part of good design.
What Was Helpful for My Work
This talk was especially meaningful for me as someone working at the intersection of physical and digital experiences. Schmitt’s perspective made me reflect on how emotional connection often gets lost when we focus too much on the technical side of digital design.
In projects where I blend physical materials with digital interactions, whether it’s sensors, projections, or screen-based interfaces, it’s easy to prioritize what the technology can do over what it feels like to use. Schmitt’s talk reminded me that technology should serve the emotional goals of an experience, not just the functional ones.
He challenged me to think more critically about how digital responses, like lighting, sound, or interface feedback, can be designed to feel more human, warm, or even vulnerable. It’s not just about impressing users with innovation, but about creating a moment that feels real and meaningful. That mindset shift will definitely shape how I approach future projects that aim to engage people on both a sensory and emotional level.
Final Thoughts
This talk didn’t introduce any new technologies or visual trends, but it provided something more profound: a reminder that effective digital design is experienced emotionally, not just visually. To create experiences that resonate with people, we must go beyond mere logic and efficiency. We need to design with emotional intention.